How To FIX The MAN

Being a lady that’s got her femininity together could be so comfy and secure. Well, the trends fleeting so fast

Dependent by design – wants to feel like being sustained, But then, with men who don’t know or has a hard-time living-up to sustaining her, how is she going to survive? Definitely, you’ll be in the labor market like the virtuous woman who’s a merchant – but the nice thing is she didn’t lose her femininity.

Even a cub hates a woman who’s lost the softness of feminity, you’re a man’s baby – you came out of him; well, if you keep

Descendants of EVE #PraiseForWomen

I really would love to start by messing up some old clichés and belief’s we’ve held-up overtime just with some questions. You know, it doesn’t really matter how long a lie has endured, its longevity doesn’t metamorphose it from being a lie. It only depends on how long the truth which has been swept-in under the carpet takes to surface.

Well, I would want to start-out by asking, is there in reality anything like being married to the wrong person? Can there ever be any wrong person created? Is every marriage predestined? Or is every marriage supposed to precede predestination? Well, we’ll be diving deep in this as it would heal weak relationships, but let’s just begin from the surface, handling first things first.

I’m giving it up for the woman! She’s created with splendour; she didn’t come out of the rough earth’s clay – brought on the scene after all has been rightly put in place, she rightly depicts what God could take flesh and die for. She’s completely created to be sassy, a crown on God’s creation. Dependent by design, soft-hearted, an emotional creature – giving a radiance of comfort to God’s creature, - she isn’t just carrying a womb but empowered to carry and nurture things around her. She’s beautiful, completely exquisite that God compared her to his glorious church – designed to b protected and covered, succulent – created to draw-in attention, the whole creature stood-still in admiration of her.

A creature God made specially, on her tender shoulder she gives comfort and on it she carries the weight of the world – with an inner strength to endure childbirth and yet a tender heart to endure the hurts and rejection that oftentimes comes from her children and husband. She’s designed with an inner tenacity that keeps her going even when everyone else gives up.

She’s a creature of love, with a deep sensitivity of love to love her children under any and all circumstance – even when her child has hurt her very badly. She takes care of her family through sickness and fatigues – stays awake at night to watch over each of her child without complaining.

Designed to carry her man through his faults and fashioned from his ribs to protect his heart – she encourages him through his hard-times and provides him the motivation to win his fight. She’s always behind her man to make him succeed.

She only vents her hurt through her tears, though she has a strength that can equate a bomb of mass destruction. She carries an emotion that makes her believe and forgives her man and her child. She is kind – she’s a builder, she makes her family an edifice – created to adopt and adapt every situation.

In latest trend, she’s dressed up alongside with her man as a merchant, and ready to protect and stay with him through his low-income. She’s leaving her zone as a creature to be sustained and she’s beginning to sustain. She’s powered to switch roles, and yet covering her role as a feminine being. I give it all up for my momma; I give it up for you all women!

Every moment I see a woman with a gaze straight-in her eyes, I see the love in her heart. She isn’t just beautiful in the clothe she wears, or in the figure she carries and the fragrance she’s got on – she’s created with a beauty on the inside, she’s worth every bit of Adam’s attention. And she’s you.

How To DEAL With HURTS And HEARTBREAKS

Your heart is not designed to be logical it’s designed to feel and to accept and to believe. That’s why you generally are advised not to take your heart on a journey without your brain. You’d only show your naivety.

While you trust people you should have a reservation of yourself – it’s when you take your entire self and dreams and future and wrap it around an individual that wounds in your heart grow to a scar. Hardly can anyone get a life after a break-up who only could see life as being with a person. 

Ellen brought her life to a halt and her dreams put in coma as she moves her commitment

How To Get A LIFE After A DIVORCE

I pretty much understand how cruel folks could be at times and how difficult it could be to reach a compromise in the face of a man’s ego and a woman’s pride. This had really been a major cause of annulments.

Hardly would anyone fess up to accept their wrongs and seek to make things right, each of the couple seem justified in their own eyes. But how about when a spouse is subjected to a dehumanizing experience, is it really God’s will that whosoever is ill-treated. The only way out of this life shackled to ill-treatments seems

When And How To Break Up

It’s not divorce when you call off an engagement and it’s much safe than going on to be married pretending everything’s fine. For the reason that you don’t marry no one to change them – it’s next to impossible. You’d need to learn how to break up and still feel alright.

If you actually could pretend everything is fine and advance to tie the nuptials you’d as much be ready to pretend and not speak up for the rest of your lives. While a break up wouldn’t be easy for you and your partner it’s much better than enduring in place of enjoying your marriage.

More or less Dating and Courtship isn’t marriage it’s only a season to ascertain if you both are companionable. The issue is folks keep-going to act up like they’re married already – they play Hubby and Wife when they should be having meaningful talks and getting to know each other and finding out who they really are.

Most Couples after they’d walked the Altar and begin to live together, oftentimes act like they just woke up to some realities about their spouse. What’s true is – they’ve always behaved that way but you all were busy having sex that you hardly could notice.

Sorry for being unapologetically bare with the truth – just that someone has got to speak up and let’s find an end to this entire maze in our families. It’s only worsening our society. We’ve got to keep courtship as courtship and move on to quit it if we sincerely sense threats that

Becoming the MAN SHE Want You to Be

The challenge of us men in our generation is lack of father’s at our homes to model true manhood to us either because they’re away from home or in prisons. And that’s why God said, He’d restore the heart of the fathers.

It transcends beyond the man she wants you to be. It’s the man God’s created you to be. This lesson seeks to hone you into that man.

I had this man sit at the other end of my desk. He was excessively miserable as he sobbed over being married to the wrong woman. He only seeks someone who would come in agreement with him so he’d head for a divorce I sensed.

He made expressions like “not finding his missing rib, and other half, plus marrying the right/wrong woman” his basis. As he lamented over his wife being everything wrong, I cut in with a disappointing lesson with which he later was grateful for.

There exists nothing like a wrong person. Scriptures has it that after creation God saw everything he’s made and affirmed that “it is good”, and that didn’t exclude this man’s wife, or any other partner anywhere.

Every woman has the potential to be a right or wrong person based on how you relate to her. If you marry her wrongly, no doubt she’d be a wrong woman and if you marry her rightly, she’d be right too.

A woman is delicate and that’s why

Why You Need To Be WHOLE In Yourself

While love is the real juice that powers you to go a distance at the start, it requires much more virtue than love to sustain a relationship. This virtue built at singleness is what makes each of you intrigue each other as days unfold.

You need to understand yourself to really appreciate your partner and celebrate their difference. It’s hard to get someone else to know you if you don’t know yourself. Never attempt a relationship until you know yourself and what succinctly it is you’re coming in to offer. The only way you can share your heart is if you know what’s in it.

Even if you’re married already, it’s worth a hot pursuit being

VALENTINE CLASSIC; TRUE Definition of LOVE

There’s constantly a depravity in the human soul that subconsciously requests to be satisfied. Sales experts had exploited this vacuum and sold phony ideas around this emptiness. It had always got me pondering what nude women had to do with having to sell a sports car.

Our world has a perverted concept of Love and that has birthed man’s entire calamity. A concept of love that’s entirely self-seeking – it only has raised an appalling generation with cynical outlook to everything.

I’d put forth the preceding above from a broader perspective, but then locked in the confines of Valentine and our relationships. 

Amidst a list of other things, I’d teach my daughter’s the true definition of Love.

Personally, I define Love away from the surge

How To GET Him PROPOSE

Intimacy we must accept is the reward of commitment. It’s appalling asking to share intimacy that no one is willing to seal in commitment.

With less intention of commitment in recent times, Intimacy had become an adventure pursued egocentrically. Up until now sexual closeness had been a phenomenon locked within mutual dedication. The truth is we’re missing out on the true pleasure that stems forth from matching romance with commitment, closeness and passion, plus love and responsibility - its sweetest when they're grown mutually.

A better ratio of guys we would accept is pursuing romance when they’re really not interested in commitment at an expense rate of women’s

Being A One WOMAN Kind of MAN

This insight had helped me put things right. You see – I’ve an appeal to books plus whatever platform from which I could extract information as only it keeps alive my creativity. In “I kissed Dating Goodbye” by Joshua Harris, Anna tells her story – Her wedding day, the day she’d long dreamed about was finally a reality. Friends and family filled the church to its capacity.

As the gentle music of a string quartet filled the air, she walked down the aisle toward David. He gently took her hands and they turned toward the altar. Unspeakable Joy surged within Anna.  But as the minister began to lead Anna and David through their vows, the unthinkable happened. A girl stood up in the middle of the congregants, walked quietly to the altar, and took David’s other hand. Another girl approached and stood next to the first, followed by another. Soon, a chain of six girls approached and stood by him as he

4 Major REASONS Why RELATIONSHIPS FAIL

Records showed in 2012 that divorce happened every five minutes and in 2013 the Justice Department’s annual report as reported by News24 has put South Africa on the map in terms of matrimonial woes as new figures show that divorce rates has rocketed by 28% from 39, 573 to 50, 517.

Our world has a perverted and convoluted concept of Love and Marriage that births the entire conflict in our relationships. A concept of love that’s entirely self-seeking. Where folks has been taught to know what they want in a relationship as a substitute to what they should give in it.

This only shaped relationships that consists of needy people with excessive