Being A One WOMAN Kind of MAN

This insight had helped me put things right. You see – I’ve an appeal to books plus whatever platform from which I could extract information as only it keeps alive my creativity. In “I kissed Dating Goodbye” by Joshua Harris, Anna tells her story – Her wedding day, the day she’d long dreamed about was finally a reality. Friends and family filled the church to its capacity.

As the gentle music of a string quartet filled the air, she walked down the aisle toward David. He gently took her hands and they turned toward the altar. Unspeakable Joy surged within Anna.  But as the minister began to lead Anna and David through their vows, the unthinkable happened. A girl stood up in the middle of the congregants, walked quietly to the altar, and took David’s other hand. Another girl approached and stood next to the first, followed by another. Soon, a chain of six girls approached and stood by him as he
repeated his vows to Anna.

Her joy vanquished as tears welled up her eyes. “Is this some kind of Joke?” she whispered to David. “I’m sorry, Anna,” he said, staring at the floor. They’re girls from my past – as tears uncontrollably kept rolling down Anna’s cheek, she woke up and it was a dream.

Woven in the fabrics of society are factors that gets men crumbling to promiscuity – where men get socialized with the norm of polygamy and they seemingly get envious of other men with access to numerous women, it’s some kind of fad in men’s world.

You probably might not be married to another woman but you pretty much get influenced to see a date in every woman. The longer this perception is held plus Indulging in affairs with other women as a man reduces your desire to connect with your spouse and you tend to stay in that disconnected state from her for the rest of your life. Residues from that experience as its imprinted within you would cause you to struggle with bonding in your (future) marriage.

There’re friendships constantly coming our way as guys, but as we've held a polygamous perspective we tend to approach each friendship as a potential date. There’s more to other women than someone else to go out with – we really have got to challenge and overcome this false perception. 

You’d agree as much as I do that its healthier giving 100% of you to one woman than 20% to five – what traumatic experience it surmounts on you psychologically navigating between each of them sucks-out the entire pleasure in the process.

Barely, have I referenced to what spiritual implication it effects and how it stunts creativity. I’m basically not trying to be judgmental it’s just that a man has got to say what a man has got to say. Trust me guys we all wouldn’t wish for such scenario at Anna and David’s marriage – we can be a one woman kind of man. We really can redirect our passions as it churns up within us to pursue our highest purpose.

• ·Redefine your perspectives about relating with ladies and crash prior ideas of rolling a platonic relationship as being impossible and tough, to a function delegated to you and every other person living in this planet.

• See yourself to be firm and friendly, able to make connections with ladies with no strings to it

• Believe that you can  - the power of man to breakthrough limitations lies in his capacity to accept that he can

The truth is, from the beginning it wasn’t so, God's intention was a One woman man.  We all have got to get back to what's right. We can all still have a meaningful relationship with other ladies without having to be emotionally attached. We out-rightly can come off the spirit of polygamy capitalizing on God's Grace.

Change the way you think! Quit thinking in the destructive patterns of our lust-driven culture - Amend how you think about Relationship, Women, and Sex. That's a big secret to a transformation. and finally, be positively Resolute and you'd lead a comfy Relationship. Cheerio!