Showing posts with label God. Show all posts
Showing posts with label God. Show all posts

Wednesday, 19 February 2014

Becoming the MAN SHE Want You to Be

The challenge of us men in our generation is lack of father’s at our homes to model true manhood to us either because they’re away from home or in prisons. And that’s why God said, He’d restore the heart of the fathers.
It transcends beyond the man she wants you to be. It’s the man God’s created you to be. This lesson seeks to hone you into that man.

I had this man sit at the other end of my desk. He was excessively miserable as he sobbed over being married to the wrong woman. He only seeks someone who would come in agreement with him so he’d head for a divorce I sensed.

He made expressions like “not finding his missing rib, and other half, plus marrying the right/wrong woman” his basis. As he lamented over his wife being everything wrong, I cut in with a disappointing lesson with which he later was grateful for.

There exists nothing like a wrong person. Scriptures has it that after creation God saw everything he’s made and affirmed that “it is good”, and that didn’t exclude this man’s wife, or any other partner anywhere.

Every woman has the potential to be a right or wrong person based on how you relate to her. If you marry her wrongly, no doubt she’d be a wrong woman and if you marry her rightly, she’d be right too.

A woman is delicate and that’s why

Friday, 7 February 2014

ITS JUST LIFE

She was just loosing it already. Survived hell but about being drowned in this high-waters. Seemed like the whole world is crashing down around her. Slowly life is being snuffed-out of her expectation till she came to be hopeless and now accepting the status quo as her fate.

Fight! Fight! you can breakthrough this – she felt from the onset as she set-out, but now is the feeling of her muscles being paralyzed before this seemingly unbeatable circumstance.
Now there's nothing more but to yield to fate - I'm throwing in the towel, she said in herself, set to have her future buried in the sands of the desert. Hagar.

He lived during the times of Abraham – kept up with being good – Honest inside and out, a man of his word. He gave bountifully to the poor, cared unhesitatingly for the orphans, he never had hurt a fly, never was he victimized by promiscuity, he was an upright man – in one of his sayings he expressed “I’d made a covenant with my eyes not to look upon a damsel”. He was totally devoted to