Becoming the MAN SHE Want You to Be

The challenge of us men in our generation is lack of father’s at our homes to model true manhood to us either because they’re away from home or in prisons. And that’s why God said, He’d restore the heart of the fathers.

It transcends beyond the man she wants you to be. It’s the man God’s created you to be. This lesson seeks to hone you into that man.

I had this man sit at the other end of my desk. He was excessively miserable as he sobbed over being married to the wrong woman. He only seeks someone who would come in agreement with him so he’d head for a divorce I sensed.

He made expressions like “not finding his missing rib, and other half, plus marrying the right/wrong woman” his basis. As he lamented over his wife being everything wrong, I cut in with a disappointing lesson with which he later was grateful for.

There exists nothing like a wrong person. Scriptures has it that after creation God saw everything he’s made and affirmed that “it is good”, and that didn’t exclude this man’s wife, or any other partner anywhere.

Every woman has the potential to be a right or wrong person based on how you relate to her. If you marry her wrongly, no doubt she’d be a wrong woman and if you marry her rightly, she’d be right too.

A woman is delicate and that’s why

Why You Need To Be WHOLE In Yourself

While love is the real juice that powers you to go a distance at the start, it requires much more virtue than love to sustain a relationship. This virtue built at singleness is what makes each of you intrigue each other as days unfold.

You need to understand yourself to really appreciate your partner and celebrate their difference. It’s hard to get someone else to know you if you don’t know yourself. Never attempt a relationship until you know yourself and what succinctly it is you’re coming in to offer. The only way you can share your heart is if you know what’s in it.

Even if you’re married already, it’s worth a hot pursuit being

VALENTINE CLASSIC; TRUE Definition of LOVE

There’s constantly a depravity in the human soul that subconsciously requests to be satisfied. Sales experts had exploited this vacuum and sold phony ideas around this emptiness. It had always got me pondering what nude women had to do with having to sell a sports car.

Our world has a perverted concept of Love and that has birthed man’s entire calamity. A concept of love that’s entirely self-seeking – it only has raised an appalling generation with cynical outlook to everything.

I’d put forth the preceding above from a broader perspective, but then locked in the confines of Valentine and our relationships. 

Amidst a list of other things, I’d teach my daughter’s the true definition of Love.

Personally, I define Love away from the surge

How To GET Him PROPOSE

Intimacy we must accept is the reward of commitment. It’s appalling asking to share intimacy that no one is willing to seal in commitment.

With less intention of commitment in recent times, Intimacy had become an adventure pursued egocentrically. Up until now sexual closeness had been a phenomenon locked within mutual dedication. The truth is we’re missing out on the true pleasure that stems forth from matching romance with commitment, closeness and passion, plus love and responsibility - its sweetest when they're grown mutually.

A better ratio of guys we would accept is pursuing romance when they’re really not interested in commitment at an expense rate of women’s

Being A One WOMAN Kind of MAN

This insight had helped me put things right. You see – I’ve an appeal to books plus whatever platform from which I could extract information as only it keeps alive my creativity. In “I kissed Dating Goodbye” by Joshua Harris, Anna tells her story – Her wedding day, the day she’d long dreamed about was finally a reality. Friends and family filled the church to its capacity.

As the gentle music of a string quartet filled the air, she walked down the aisle toward David. He gently took her hands and they turned toward the altar. Unspeakable Joy surged within Anna.  But as the minister began to lead Anna and David through their vows, the unthinkable happened. A girl stood up in the middle of the congregants, walked quietly to the altar, and took David’s other hand. Another girl approached and stood next to the first, followed by another. Soon, a chain of six girls approached and stood by him as he

4 Major REASONS Why RELATIONSHIPS FAIL

Records showed in 2012 that divorce happened every five minutes and in 2013 the Justice Department’s annual report as reported by News24 has put South Africa on the map in terms of matrimonial woes as new figures show that divorce rates has rocketed by 28% from 39, 573 to 50, 517.

Our world has a perverted and convoluted concept of Love and Marriage that births the entire conflict in our relationships. A concept of love that’s entirely self-seeking. Where folks has been taught to know what they want in a relationship as a substitute to what they should give in it.

This only shaped relationships that consists of needy people with excessive

Why Married Men Have Affairs

“But, what does the other woman have that I don’t?” Constantly I’ve had this sort of questions jumping out at me from the other end of my lines/desk as hurting women vent and seek advice as well.

Comprehending why men cheat plus why married men have affairs outside matrimony would perhaps make a book, I’d just make an attempt to blog about a few new issues I’ve come-up with that expedites this.

This occurrence seems next to impossible at first considering the tenacious pursuit and die-hard commitment guys’ shoot-off as the vapour of emotions rise.

I’ve only been left with a narrow escape oftentimes when confronted with this question as it intends to bring me down into acceptance of putting the entire weight on the man’s uncontrolled passion. But then, shifting places with those men, I won’t 100% say nothing – you’d really need to dig up why the other woman keeps winning his affection.

While everyone has something to say about this – I basically desire to give an answer to what she has that you don’t. Men’s vulnerability to what they see influences their weakness to Seduction techniques of most women. But then, a few men have developed past these phase – yet they have this tendency to stumble at another thing I’d show you.

A few things we seem oblivious to turns out as his icebreaker to promiscuity – we tend to emasculate him, ceasing to engage him with yourself, then he’s opened up to the other woman. Learn how not to emasculate your man – keep him feeling effective.

ITS JUST LIFE

She was just loosing it already. Survived hell but about being drowned in this high-waters. Seemed like the whole world is crashing down around her. Slowly life is being snuffed-out of her expectation till she came to be hopeless and now accepting the status quo as her fate.

Fight! Fight! you can breakthrough this – she felt from the onset as she set-out, but now is the feeling of her muscles being paralyzed before this seemingly unbeatable circumstance.

Now there's nothing more but to yield to fate - I'm throwing in the towel, she said in herself, set to have her future buried in the sands of the desert. Hagar.

He lived during the times of Abraham – kept up with being good – Honest inside and out, a man of his word. He gave bountifully to the poor, cared unhesitatingly for the orphans, he never had hurt a fly, never was he victimized by promiscuity, he was an upright man – in one of his sayings he expressed “I’d made a covenant with my eyes not to look upon a damsel”. He was totally devoted to

DEFINE and STICK to YOUR NICHE

Having Five (5) task at-hand you achieve more giving hundred percent (100%) of yourself to one (1), than Twenty percent (20%) to five (5) Selah. The problem I’ve seen with most people which reduce their effectiveness in life/purpose and reaching their goals is the fact that they get involved with too many activities with sixty (60%) being to please people.

You need people to achieve your purpose and visions, thus you should be available any time someone else needs you to achieve a goal, but when it’s a jamboree or irrelevant event or something that’s encroaching into your personal vision, no matter how good the offer sounds “There’s something I’ve got my eyes on!” I would try to communicate that as friendly as possible.

Most folks take pride in how many things they’re doing at a time, but then I would want to find-out how well too! Because this concept is weird